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I see it as positive and you are just going too fast for her. I don't want to drag things out any longer, presumes a bad ending. But logical, confident you should be able to do this: provide she is holding your interest, no one else comes along and she is not unreasonable with her level of contact. You can also do it by matching, as Oregon dude said, the time frame one takes to get back to you. Or match the actions. Or this one is a little game play-y but sometimes I'm not above advising that: when she said she has her independent life, you could have responded: yeah you are right we did kind move things a little fast and I totally get it; there are some things I've been neglecting too. She is not the only fish in the sea. It's like a reset button. I mean you said it yourself: that you did not exactly feel as good about her based on her saying/doing this, right? Basically you are matching her step for step with your/her pace. Sure it's possible you are just one of several options to her but like you said before, it's open-ended. The reason that it's game play-y is that is obviously not how you are feeling when you are hearing this for the first time. So see why it's important to remain in the moment? The rest of what you said sounds like good communication that comes from a positive, caring place and is your best chance. Ok what I bolded above is where I think your insecurity and impatience got the best of you. It was just exciting and I got caught up in the moment. However, it's really not when you are able to catch your breath, take a step back and realize that if she is dialing down, you want to dial it down too. You could have said the rest of what you said to her and been fine and still shown that you don't want to waste your time and are deserving of an answer. Now if this is inauthentic to you it's not going to work. Operate from a place of abundance and certainty in yourself and your attractiveness. And reasonably, realistic you knows in some ways she is right about this. See when I read her sentence to you, it sounds good and honest. Don't jump further ahead than what you are receiving. In some ways responding in kind, and specifically like this in this instance provides a reset. It also sounds confident and implies that you are assessing the relationship without sounding overly emotional about it nor too invested. Think positive from that reply. It's demanding and comes from a negative place and is not confident. Your actions and communication will reflect that you see it as such and you will have better results. You will have other options.added by Yangtao for Elise Lotte on 11.10.2019 in 16:18
They are literate and intelligent. The guys I meet socially just don't behave like these guys online. They are better mannered and kinder. They seem interested in me not just sex.